tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post6488239459137789555..comments2023-06-29T22:24:25.784+10:00Comments on Cat's Experiment: and the answer is...Cat's Experimenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00242905442503807710noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-26735364300913376322007-09-26T10:09:00.000+10:002007-09-26T10:09:00.000+10:00well done Cat!!well done Cat!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-40861440907069101822007-09-25T08:14:00.000+10:002007-09-25T08:14:00.000+10:00Kitty Cat, I agree with Laurel et al who've raised...Kitty Cat, I agree with Laurel et al who've raised the role of your blog in all this. If I were you I wouldn't tell a bf about the blog and then when I did I'd make sure nothing super personal about him was on it. Men hate that sort of stuff, especially on such a public forum :-) Just a friendly suggestion!<BR/><BR/>Anyway, tis no matter now as you're onwards an upwards! Hooray!<BR/>xxChic Rugbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07888649314414099499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-58866340646576755812007-09-25T00:33:00.000+10:002007-09-25T00:33:00.000+10:00Nice work :)I don't know why as women we feel this...Nice work :)<BR/>I don't know why as women we feel this need not to 'rock the boat' in order to keep everyone slightly content with what's going on.<BR/>And ya - I never shared my blog with anyone I dated - I figure I needed the outlet online, so good decision on your end too :)<BR/>wahoo!khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08117025999296822435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-32701341844634512172007-09-24T23:18:00.000+10:002007-09-24T23:18:00.000+10:00well done. I'm glad you owned your emotions. Hoora...well done. I'm glad you owned your emotions. Hooray for clarity, courage and the advice of good shrinks. However, I agree with Laurel that maybe you do need to think about what role your blog played in his prevarication - while of course you can justly say that it was his choice to read it, it was a rather round-about-way to communicate your feelings ( knowing full well that there was a good chance he might be reading it) ...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-22661104633644961042007-09-24T23:17:00.000+10:002007-09-24T23:17:00.000+10:00well done. I'm glad you owned your emotions. Hoora...well done. I'm glad you owned your emotions. Hooray for clarity, courage and the advice of good shrinks. However, I agree with Laurel that maybe you do need to think about what role your blog played in his prevarication - while of course you can justly say that it was his choice to read it, it was a rather round-about-way to communicate your feelings ( knowing full well that there was a good chance he might be reading it) ...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-82496971724584534232007-09-24T21:15:00.000+10:002007-09-24T21:15:00.000+10:00Well done Cat! You should be proud of yourself. I...Well done Cat! You should be proud of yourself. In my experience, when a man tells you he is "not a catch" or says "I am a bastard", they are usually telling the truth! It might seem hard to believe it now but there is someone fab out there for you - not non-committal scaredy boys but a really fab man!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-31016689665376465582007-09-24T20:51:00.000+10:002007-09-24T20:51:00.000+10:00Good question Laurel. There was almost 4 weeks fr...Good question Laurel. There was almost 4 weeks from the time I saw him to the dump call. I did choose to blog stuff that he may be uncomfortable with, but that is his choice both to read it & mine to continue my journey regardless.<BR/>Overall I wouldn't let a potential know of the blog in the early stage again.<BR/>I'll explore this a bit more in a full post, cos it is importantCat's Experimenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00242905442503807710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-60343865177291010492007-09-24T19:42:00.000+10:002007-09-24T19:42:00.000+10:00one little thing - just for discussion purposes. D...one little thing - just for discussion purposes. Do you think that some of the relationship was conducted via your blog? That you set out what you wanted in a relationship here, and hoped he would read it? Is that something you would do again? :)Laurel Papworthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12455125625996652680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-57922601914060328842007-09-24T16:38:00.000+10:002007-09-24T16:38:00.000+10:00I'm a little in awe and so pleased for you that yo...I'm a little in awe and so pleased for you that you stated what bothered you, and what you weren't prepared to put with, and arranged for DVD return. Bravo CatAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-87993234725184127162007-09-24T16:32:00.000+10:002007-09-24T16:32:00.000+10:00I realised you have to be angry at the person who ...I realised you have to be angry at the person who made you angry, don't be nice to them & then be angry at ppl who support you..<BR/>only then, as you say SillyV, can you move on.<BR/><BR/>my fab women friends ! thank you !Cat's Experimenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00242905442503807710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-20528443193398160232007-09-24T16:28:00.000+10:002007-09-24T16:28:00.000+10:00good girl. :)good girl. :)Laurel Papworthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12455125625996652680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-81621826048374757002007-09-24T16:26:00.000+10:002007-09-24T16:26:00.000+10:00well done! - so wise: that we behave nicely and sw...well done! - so wise: that we behave nicely and swallow the things that annoy us because maybe we still have hope somewhere... but that's silly, we're keeping ourselves from moving on. congratulations! :-)<BR/>SVAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25424560.post-62311719279510189482007-09-24T15:38:00.000+10:002007-09-24T15:38:00.000+10:00Hooray!There's a truly wonderful man out there for...Hooray!<BR/><BR/>There's a truly wonderful man out there for you Cat - with the emphasis on 'man', not boy.<BR/><BR/>Voice Man should be rechristened.<BR/><BR/>xxChic Rugbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07888649314414099499noreply@blogger.com