Speed date matches

The matches come through the next day via email. Only one. Zaash. quelle surprise. One of his comments was "are you a player? I don't' like players" as the northern beaches area he lives in is full of players, apparently. The question was surprising, did I look like a player? or, most likely, he wants to be in control, doesn't' want his heart broken. Another likely is that if men don't treat their partners well, give them attention, make a fuss, then they are likely to stray?